Reflecting on Summer: Is Your Child’s Camp Still the Right Fit?
Some kids are already home, while others will return in the next week or so. The summer has flown by—now it’s time to stock up on school supplies, get uniforms ready, and finally tackle that summer reading list that’s been sitting untouched. How did it go by so fast?
End-of-summer rituals at camp are incredibly special. Color war, the final banquet, awards ceremonies, campfires, and tearful goodbyes—these moments create lifelong memories and friendships. The longer a child stays at the same camp, the deeper those bonds become. And yet, sticking with the same camp for seven or eight years isn’t the right choice for everyone.
When you first chose a camp, it was likely based on who your child was 8 - 10 years old. But children grow, and their interests, needs, and personalities evolve. The camp may remain the same, but is it still the right fit for who your child is now?
Evaluating the Experience
Camps can vary widely—some are competitive, others are recreational or instructional; some are close to home, others are far away. When you made your initial decision, you did so based on the information available at the time. But after one or two summers, it’s natural to reassess. This isn’t about blame—it’s about growth for both parent and child.
So, what’s next?
✔ Welcome your child home with open arms and ask about their summer.
✔ Listen carefully—what did they love? What didn’t they enjoy? What, if anything, would they change?
✔ If they express dissatisfaction, determine whether it’s about the camp itself or a personal issue with another camper or counselor. Running from social challenges doesn’t teach resilience—it teaches avoidance.
That said, sometimes a camp simply no longer aligns with your child’s evolving interests and needs—and that’s okay! Recognizing this early allows you to explore other options while still giving your child time to build lifelong friendships elsewhere.
Don’t Be Afraid to Reevaluate
Every year, I review academic options for my children, reassess my healthcare plan, and make updates where necessary. Why should camp choice be any different?
If you’re wondering whether your child’s camp is still the right fit, do the homework. Explore alternatives, ask the right questions, and make informed decisions. After all, summer should be a time for growth, joy, and unforgettable experiences.